Wife beaters

🌟 WIFE BEATERS 🌟
*{{Questions & Answers Regarding Beating of Wives}}*
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بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

*Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “ The strong are not the best wrestlers. Verily, the strong are only those who control themselves when they are angry.” (Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5763, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2609)*

*Our beloved prophet Muhammad SAW should serve as our imitator {{who we copy}}. If the wives of the prophet Muhammad SAW who are selected among the best of women interms of characters, manners and fear of Allah SWT,, will push HIM to the wall to an extent of leaving the house for ALMOST 30days,,, then, our wives should not ONLY send us away from the house but............😷😀*

🔑 *If u (men) follow women's attitude interms of disobedience & sturbboness to issues, u will not stop doing all the regrettables .*

*And wives should fear Allah SWT by not been disobedience and stubborn to issues with their husbands🙏🏿... Women should also know that the PATIENCE of almost every HUSBAND nowadays has MELTED away unconsciously by G.E.M😳.. G.E.M?.. Yes ~ (Global Economic Meltdown)😂.. It has TOUCHED everything and everybody,, including ur husband.*😀

*Men easily get annoyed when they Wake up with financial demanding problems and there is NO MONEY to clear them... In that situation,,, if care is not taken BEHAVIORALLY as a wife,, even if he did not beat u directly,, he will UNCONSCIOUSLY MESSAGE UR PRETTY FACE with few dirty-slaps😝.. And it is ur fault.*

*Large numbers of house wives today are only good in releasing the INSULTIVE NUCLEAR BOMBS in their mouth when their husband is FINANCIALLY INCAPACITATED... In this situation,, nobody will blame him if he UNCONSCIOUSLY DOWNLOAD ALL THE FRUSTRATION on u😝.. Because u invited it.🤷🏻‍♂ I am NOT saying husbands should beat or transfer their FRAUTRATIVE LIFE SITUATIONS to their wives.. But wives should know that,, their husbands are not Angels or prophets.. They need to be WATERED-DOWN by their wives through the use of caring charming romantic hospitalistic formula.*

*Marriage is an act of IBADAH.. And the prize of been patient and obedient to husbands is jannah.*
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*Quote from the Holy Qur'an: An-Nisaa (4:34)*

....وَٱلَّٰتِى تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَٱهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِى ٱلْمَضَاجِعِ وَٱضْرِبُوهُنَّ ۖ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا

*TRANSLATION:*

*.........But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.*

Question: Is there another solution other than beating our wives ?

*Actually, yes. There are 2 other solutions in the same verse before reaching this step and other hadiths by the prophet telling us not to use force with our wives.*

▶ *The 1st solution in the verse which says:* 👇🏿

✔ *[first] advise them;*

✔ *The 2nd solution,[then if they persist], forsake them in bed"*

*NOTE: You must note that you are not allowed to jump to the 3rd solution (beating your wife) directly.*

▶ *3rd solution:-You can use the 3rd solution/option only when you have tried the 2 solutions above,, b4 resulting into beating her:*👇🏿

*These solutions are for sincere people.. In other words: Don't just give her first, second advice or forsake her in bed for just 1 day and you think now,, she is RIPE TO BE BEATING😀.. NO!... If the problem persists, the husband may resort to another measure that may save the marriage, at least in some cases (involve the 3rd party).. B4 he can then use the last solution. (strike/beat them lightly)*

*Although it is permisible to beat our wives {{see details of questions & answers below on how to beat wives}}.. It is worth mentioning that Allah has asked us in many verses to be patient with our wives:- Below is Quran verse which says:*👇🏿

*...….And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people. If they both desire reconciliation, Allah will cause it between them. Indeed, Allah is ever Knowing and Acquainted [with all things].*
*(Quran 4/35)*

👉🏿 *We should not ignore all these verses and beat our wives even if it is permissible for us to do so.*

*Furthermore, the prophet never hit his wives or nor a slave. When you read his seerah(bio) he would always solve any family issue without resorting to force/violence.  He {{prophet Muhammad SAW}} even praised those who don't beat their wives:*

*H A D E E T H:* 👇🏿

*Do not beat the female servants of Allaah;" "Some (women) visited my family complaining about their husbands (beating them). These (husbands) are not the best of you;" and also, "[It is a shame that] one of you beats his wife like [an unscrupulous person] beats a slave and maybe he sleeps with her at the end of the day."*
*[Riyadh Al-Saaliheen]*

*And in another hadith, Abu Bakr came seeking permission to enter upon the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and he heard Aisha raising her voice over the Messenger of Allah. He entered and said, “O daughter of Umm Ruman! Are you raising your voice over the Messenger of Allah?” So the Prophet stood between them and when Abu Bakr left, he said to her, “Do you see how I saved you from him?”*

*Then Abu Bakr again sought permission to enter upon the Prophet and he heard them both laughing. He entered and said, “O Messenger of Allah, allow me to share in your peace just as you have allowed me to share in your conflict.”*
*(Source: Musnad Ahmad 17927)*

*And as Muslims when we hear such hadiths, we should imitate and follow the teachings of the prophet Mohammed (PBUH) as the quran commands: Say, [O Muhammad], "If you should love Allah , then follow me, [so] Allah will love you and forgive you your sins. And Allah is Forgiving and Merciful."*
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Question: Is there any evidence from Qur'an and hadeeth which permits beating of wives? If yes,, how?

*Yes, there is.*

*TRANSLATION ONLY:*👇🏿

*........But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.*
*Quran 4/34*

*Also, a hadith in "Sahih Muslim" backs up the ayah above: Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: "Fear Allah concerning women! Verily you have taken them on the security of Allah, and intercourse with them has been made lawful unto you by words of Allah.*

*You too have rights over them, and that they should not allow anyone to sit on your bed [i.e., not let them into the house] whom you do not like. But if they do that, you can chastise them but not severely.*

*Their rights upon you are that you should provide them with food and clothing in a fitting manner"*
*(Narrated by Muslim, 1218)*
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Question: When are we allowed to beat them?

*But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance. (Qur'an)*
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Question: What kind of beating?

*Islam has specific guidelines that a Muslim must follow if he wants to beat his wife.*

*It must be a light striking. Ibn Abbas, The most famous interpreter of the Quran, when asked about this verse and the way you beat the wife, he answered: You beat them with a Miswak. Miswak is a thin rod*.

*By choosing the thin rod as a tool, Ibn Abbas is informing us that beating should not cause any bodily harm, or even be harsh. Instead, It is more like a way to chastise someone's wife.*

*Muslims are not allowed to beat the face of an animal. Then Imagine how unpermisable it is to hit the face of a human?*

*In the hadith of the prophet: Messenger (PBUH) forbade (the animals to be beaten) on the face or cauterisation on the face.*
*(Muslim)*
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Question: But why does the Quran say we should beat them while the prophet didn't raise his hands over any women?

*To answer this question you should know that Islamic teachings are universal in nature. They respond to the needs and circumstances of diverse times, cultures and circumstances.*

*Some measures may work in some cases and cultures or with certain persons but may not be effective in others.. Some wives hardly push the matter to reach the length of beating.. And some can never amend bad to good except they receive.......😝.. But in all situation, patient and endurance is the key.*

*Allah knows best*

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