Can a Muslim Sex his wife with Condom?

Can Muslim do

sex with his wife by using Condom to control

birth.

Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,

As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa

Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and

Blessings be upon all of you)

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As salaamu Alaikum

Being a Muslim Married I would like to ask some

questions on the Sex topic :

1.Can Muslim do sex with his wife by using

Condom to control birth or it is not permissible

in Islam and it is a Sin in Islam?

2.Can Muslim do sex with his wife by kissing her

Vagina or it is not permissible in Islam and it

is a Sin in Islam?

3.Can Muslim do sex with his wife through her

Anus or it is not permissible in Islam and it is

a Sin in Islam?

Above answer will be very helpful to me in order

not to do any Sin if it is not permissible in

Islam

Jazak Allah

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Answer:

Use condoms sex

In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His

help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah

guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows

to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We

bear witness that there is none worthy of

worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness

that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and

the seal of His Messengers.

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah

Baqarah verse 223:

223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so

approach your tilth (for sexual intercourse) when

or how ye will.

Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: 'The Messenger of

Allah (saws) said: "there is a reward for you

[even] in sex with your wife."' The companions

asked: 'O Messenger of Allah (saws) is there a

reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws)

said: "Do you know that if he satisfies it

unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself?

Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is

rewarded."

Related by Ahmad and Muslim.

Islam has allowed the husband and the wife in

marriage every possible liberty to enjoy conjugal

relations with each other, except three:

1. It is strictly prohibited to have sexual

intercourse with one's wife during her period

of menstruation.

2. It is strictly prohibited to enter the woman

through her anus.

3. Although there is no specific prohibition

mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah, the

majority of the scholars in Islam have voiced

their opinion against 'oral' sex, whereby one

touches the other's private organs with

their mouth.

Other than the above three restrictions, one

may enjoy conjugal relations with one's wife any

place, any time, and any how their heart's

desire.

Q-1: Can Muslim do sex with his wife by using

Condom to control birth or it is not permissible in

Islam and it is a Sin in Islam?

Islam has permitted the spacing of children in a

marriage, if one wishes to do so. It has been

reported in authentic narrations that some of

the noble companions of the Messenger of Allah

(saws) used to practice 'coitus-interruptus',

whereby the male organ is removed from the

female organ just before ejaculation.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 7.136 Narrated by

Jabir

We used to practice 'coitus interruptus' during

the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (saws) while

the Qur'an was being Revealed.

Most of the scholars of Islam are of the

opinion, that there is no harm if one wishes or

tries to space the birth of one's child, or even

uses one of the modern forms of birth control

(condoms, pills, etc.) to space the ages of their

children. But all of them are absolutely

unanimous in their opinion that any form of

permanent birth control is absolutely forbidden

in Islam.

But if one were to stop or limit the number of

their children only because of the fear of how

they will provide for them or feed them….then

such a fear and belief is absolutely against the

guidance of Allah and His Messenger (saws), and

a grave sin in the Sight of Allah Subhanah.

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah

Anaam verse 140:

Most surely they became losers, who, in their folly

and ignorance killed their own children ; and made

unlawful what Allah had provided them as

sustenance, falsely ascribing prohibitions to

Allah. Surely, they went astray and were not

at all rightly guided.

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 6 Surah

Anaam verse 151 (part):

You should not kill your children for fear of poverty;

for We provide sustenance for you and will

provide sustenance for them also.

Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah

Israa verse 31:

Do not kill your children for fear of want; for it is

We Who provide for them, and for you as well.

Indeed, their killing is a heinous crime!

Q-2: Can Muslim do sex with his wife by kissing her

Vagina or it is not permissible in Islam and it is a

Sin in Islam?

To derive pleasure by touching ones spouse's

private parts with the mouth is what is known

as 'oral sex'. Such an act is obviously

unnatural, unhealthy, unhygienic, unclean, impure

and this act is not found even in any of the

lower animate creations!

Because oral sex is a new deviation of mankind,

it finds specific mention neither in the Quran

nor the Sunnah!

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 7 Surah

Aaraaf verse 157:

157 Those who follow the Messenger, the

'Ummi' (unlettered) Prophet (Mohammed

(saws)) whom they find mentioned in

their own (Scriptures); in the Law and

the Gospel; for he (Prophet Mohamed

(saws)) commands them what is just

and forbids them what is evil: he allows

them as lawful what is 'tayyibaat' (good

and pure) and prohibits them from what is

'Khabaayith' (bad, evil and impure); He

releases them from their heavy burdens

and from the yokes that are upon

them. So it is those who believe in

him, honor him, help him, and follow

the Light which is sent down with him:

it is they who will prosper."

But since the permissibility/impermissibility of

this specific act of what is known today as

'oral sex' is not mentioned by name or act

anywhere in the Quran and the Sunnah, the

God-fearing and the pious amongst the scholars

in Islam have abstained from declaring it

'haraam'; the most they have said is that the

act is from the 'khabaaith' (impure) and thus

closer to the haraam than to the halaal, and

the believers should fear Allah and abstain from

it.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 3.267 Narrated by

An Numan bin Bashir

The Prophet (saws) said "Both the halaal

(lawful) and the haraam (unlawful) things are

(made) obvious, and in between them are

(suspicious) doubtful matters. So whoever

forsakes those doubtful things lest he may

commit a sin, will definitely avoid what is

clearly unlawful; and whoever indulges in these

(suspicious) doubtful things bravely, is likely to

commit what is clearly illegal. Sins are Allah's

Hima (i.e. private pasture) and whoever

pastures (his sheep) near it, is likely to get in

it at any moment."

Given the unbelievable liberty Islam has granted

to the husband and the wife to enjoy conjugal

relations in their sacred bond of marriage, in

our humble opinion, it would be best for the

believers who sincerely fear Allah and the Last

Day to strive to abstain from this doubtful act

of 'oral sex'; and Allah Alone Knows Best.

Q-3: Can Muslim do sex with his wife through her

Anus or it is not permissible in Islam and it is a Sin

in Islam?

Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 2157 Narrated by

Abu Hurayrah

The Prophet (saws) said: ' He who has intercourse

with his wife through her anus is accursed.'

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3192 Narrated by

Khuzaymah ibn Thabit

The Prophet (saws) said, "Allah is not ashamed

of the Truth! Do not have intercourse with women

through the anus."

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3195 Narrated by Abdullah

ibn Abbas

Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Allah will not look

at a man who has intercourse with a man or a

woman through the anus. "

Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 3895 Narrated by

Abu Hurayrah

The Prophet (saws) said: 'If anyone resorts to

a diviner and believes in what he says or has

intercourse with his wife when she is

menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife

through her anus: he has nothing to do with what has

been sent down to Muhammad (saws)!'

Allah and His Messenger (saws) have specified as

absolutely unlawful and prohibited for a believer

who sincerely fears Allah and the Last Day to

enjoy conjugal relations with his wife through her

anus.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only

due to Allah's Assistance and Guidance, and

whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone

Knows Best and He is the Only Source of

Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam ,

Burhan



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